Bribing people makes them not like you, try this instead

Bribing people sucks and makes them not Like you and not want to do the thing That you want them to do so if I say I Want you to do something and I say I'll Give you this cookie if you do it you're Less likely to want to do it because Then it feels really transactional but Here's what's interesting you can Literally just change the order that you Do stuff and get them to want to do it So if you say hey here's a cookie it'd Be really great if you did this thing People will a think you're an awesome Person and then be far more likely to Actually do this other thing you can be Far more influential by flipping the Order and giving first