A lot of people especially younger guys Are living out the life that their Father their cousin their brother Whatever has projected onto them or what They think that person wants them to do The only thing that was able to get me Out of that rut because I felt like I Hated the life I was going to live but I Felt like I couldn't get out of it Because I thought I was going to let Everyone down and it only got to the Point where I said this statement I Either have to die in their eyes or die In my own I picked dying in their eyes So that I could live my life and that Was in my opinion when I actually became A man because it stopped being about Pleasing my father but pleasing myself That is the ultimate position of power