You think you could have done it Differently without having to go through All that pain yes and no so I don't Think that suffering is a requisite for Success but I do think that it is very Likely I think that a lot of times it Just reveals our character it doesn't Necessarily create it it might have Already been there that whole time and Then we just get the environment in Which to prove it to ourselves but I Think it goes from the man with the Opinion to the man with the experience Which Ellie Hardwick said no man with an Experience is ever at the mercy of a man With an opinion so like there's some Soul hardness that I think comes through That because you have evidence in your Past of like I have been through worse